Highlights and takeaways from October: We’re still loveable ones
This moment is called ‘present’ for a reason because it is a gift. Use it well, and never let anyone ruin your day. Live glamorously. Love tremendously, and if you get hurt, it’s fine; pain is inevitable in this life journey. Enjoy it and all the troubles that come with it.
Today I’m reflecting on the past month and what was the lesson I learned and want to share with you guys. If you found at least a single takeaway helpful from this blog, the purpose of this blog can be accomplished.
Even though I couldn’t achieve all the goals I set for this month, I had an opportunity to challenge myself in different circumstances, learned many lessons, and met many wonderful people.
If you are applying for any opportunity, your first action must be to research the organization’s purpose and check whether your materials and application are aligned with its purpose.
I had an opportunity to be selected as an official member of the UNA (United Nations Association) of Mongolia, the community I’m exactly willing to belong to and dedicate my time to contributing to society with my colleagues. Before that, I had applied for a YLP of the Zorig Foundation 3 times, but unfortunately, I couldn’t be selected. I learned I hadn’t researched who they were looking for, what angle I should highlight, how I can express myself to meet their criteria, rather than jamming problems that concern me, and what I want to initiate in my application.
From this experience, I took the time to research UNA Mongolia. In my application, I emphasized how my value and purpose align with theirs and what I can contribute to making it possible.
Say YES to the new opportunity and invitations
A couple of weeks ago, my bestie’s friend invited me to appear on the tv program where she works. (MNB World “Generation”)
In my mind, I had a hesitation about rejecting her invitation because there was insecurity within me that I had nothing special to share and in fact, I’d never been interviewed on TV, especially in the English language. So I asked my bestie’s opinion, and without any doubt, she responded that I was the right person to be interviewed and my world is interesting enough to show up and inspire others. Eventually, I’m happy for challenging myself even though some important points that I said were cut due to the limited time of the program.
What I try to say is never hesitate to potential and accept invitations. Open yourself to possibilities instead of shutting down in fear.
Every month challenge yourself to new things
I saw a post on my friend’s Facebook that he is joining the 100kms running a challenge and looking for a team member. Without thinking, I just said I was in. But before that, I started a one-running challenge for the last two years; unfortunately, I just gave up in half for both. So this time, I wanted to prove that I can; I’ve started running 4–5 times a week from 30 mins- 1hr. Although I injured the arc muscle of my foot due to excessive running, I got acupuncture treatment a couple of times and finished the October challenge on time. That was an exciting and healthy challenge that I completed. Our team members connected on the NRC mobile app, and we could see the daily performance of members and support each other. Having like-minded peers with the same goal as you are vital to staying persistent and fulfilling any purpose.
Be proactive
In October, we invited a personal finance advisor, author of best-selling books including “10 rules of Investment” and “F*ck you Money” as a monthly guest speaker. I just wanted to moderate the meeting on that day to seize an opportunity to talk with the person I respect. So asked if I could take the role of, and they willingly assigned me the role of Toastmaster of the day. Unless we challenge ourselves and show our proactiveness, I’m sorry, no one knows what we want to do.
Be an independent person who still kills when no one’s around you to support
Recently, someone is about to get into my life but without any reason explained just went away. Let go of people if needed and don’t waste another minute thinking about them cuz honey If you’re a valuable person in somebody’s life they will make you time and care for you no matter how busy he or she is. Maturity is when you stop asking people why don’t call or text me and expect nothing from people. Honey, you’re young and free…
Become more of a friend to yourself and forgive yourself
Courage to say no, workload, deadlines, lack of management skill, ability to control your emotions, language barrier… so on.
It’s perfectly OK to be imperfect, but always allow yourself to make mistakes toward your passion. Again it’s perfectly OK to be shameful, make mistakes, and have weaknesses. After reading this blog, I want you guys to learn to forgive yourself for your errors and foolishness, stop worrying, and spend another minute on what others will think of you or criticize you. Sometimes you feel like an idiot because of your actions and words without thinking. Of course, we’re an idiot because we’re living on the earth for the first time, but always remember we’re still loveable.
